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		<title>Some Food For Thought&#8211;Sour Godliness???&#8211;The Devil&#8217;s Religion!</title>
		<link>http://womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com/2009/11/02/some-food-for-thought-sour-godliness-the-devils-religion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 02:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you been the unwitting accomplice of any demons lately?
Hmmm&#8230;church ladies&#8230;could it be Satan?
The capability of church people to spew forth guile and judgment never ceases to amaze me.
I hate the contemporary versions of the &#8220;religion of the pharisees&#8221; that I see run rampant in the Church of Jesus Christ.
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<p>Have you been the unwitting accomplice of any demons lately?</p>
<p>Hmmm&#8230;church ladies&#8230;could it be Satan?</p>
<p>The capability of church people to spew forth guile and judgment never ceases to amaze me.</p>
<p>I hate the contemporary versions of the &#8220;religion of the pharisees&#8221; that I see run rampant in the Church of Jesus Christ.</p>
<p>John Wesley, seeking to put a name to the critical judgmental attitude he experienced among the Christians of his era wrote,</p>
<p><em><strong>&#8220;Sour godliness is the <span style="text-decoration:underline;">devil&#8217;s religion.</span> It does not owe its inception to truly spiritual people.  I suspect that sour godliness originated among unhappy, semi-religious people who had just enough religion to make them miserable, but not enough to do them any good.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>Sour godliness, (i.e. bitter piety) could it be described any better and it is as prevalent today as it was over two hundred years ago&#8230;or for that matter over two thousand years ago.</p>
<p>What is so ironic is&#8230;</p>
<p>Jesus fought against &#8220;false perceptions of godliness&#8221; judgmentally perpetuated by those who viewed themselves as &#8220;the righteous&#8221; of His day.</p>
<p>Jesus battled &#8220;the Pharisees&#8221; those He called &#8220;the sons of devils&#8221; and had no qualms about declaring them in league with Satan himself.</p>
<p>Jesus was not at war with the sinner, he was at war with the self-righteous.</p>
<p>And alas, in the end, they won&#8230;it was their same false judgments&#8211; kindled to a bonfire and ignited by the devil&#8211;that were used to murder Him.</p>
<p>And&#8230;What is so scary to me is&#8230;</p>
<p>The same demons that were alive back then are still around today.  Those same evil entities that whispered in the ears of the Pharisees are still deluding, deceiving and encouraging those puffed up with their own &#8220;errant pious&#8221; inclinations to do their dirty work.</p>
<p>C.S. Lewis, in his classic, &#8220;The Screwtape Letters&#8221; aptly pictured these demons schooling one another in the talent to tempt vulnerable Christians into &#8220;religious unholiness.&#8221;  Lewis with his words paints a picture of the Senior devil Screwtape in a Speech before the &#8220;Annual Dinner of the Tempters&#8217; Training College for Young Devils.&#8221;</p>
<p>Screwtape slithers to the stage and exhorts his underlings of the underworld&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><em>&#8220;It will be an ill day for us if what most humans mean by &#8220;religion&#8221; ever vanishes from the Earth. It can still send us the truly delicious sins.  The fine flower of unholiness can grow only in the close neighborhood of the Holy.  Nowhere do we tempt so successfully as on the very steps of the altar.&#8221;</em></strong> &#8212; quoted from C.S. Lewis&#8217; &#8220;The Screwtape Letters&#8221;</p>
<p>Fellow Christians, let&#8217;s be wary of falling into Screwtape&#8217;s trap&#8211;let us beware of enlisting ourselves in the pursuit of &#8220;unholy religion&#8221; practiced at the very foot of the altar.</p>
<p>This week in my home church we are studying, Luke 23, the trial of Jesus before Pilate.  In this passage, Pilate&#8211;the secular ruler of the time&#8211;would have let Jesus go free finding no fault in Him, but in the end the cries of &#8220;the unholy religious&#8221; of His time dictated Jesus&#8217; death instead.</p>
<p>Could you be allowing &#8220;sour godliness&#8221; to rule your soul?  Evaluate yourselves and hear Jesus&#8217; counsel, &#8220;beware the leaven of the Pharisees!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>The History of Halloween, Is It Really Something Christians Should Celebrate?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 17:15:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Informed Christians should understand the origins of Halloween as they assess their level of involvement in celebrating what is actually a &#8220;pagan&#8221; holiday.
According to Wikipedia,
Halloween is typically linked to the celtic festival of Samhain which is derived from Old Irish and means &#8220;summer&#8217;s end&#8221;. The festival of Samhain celebrates the end of the &#8220;lighter half&#8221; [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1612&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p style="text-align:left;"><img class="alignleft" src="http://www.bigoven.com/images/blog/tricktreat.jpg" alt="" width="288" height="360" />Informed Christians should understand the origins of Halloween as they assess their level of involvement in celebrating what is actually a &#8220;pagan&#8221; holiday.</p>
<blockquote><p>According to Wikipedia,</p>
<p>Halloween is typically linked to the celtic festival of Samhain which is derived from Old Irish and means &#8220;summer&#8217;s end&#8221;. The festival of Samhain celebrates the end of the &#8220;lighter half&#8221; of the year and the beginning of the &#8220;darker half&#8221;, and is sometimes regarded as the &#8220;Celtic New Year.&#8221;</p>
<p>The celebration has some elements of a festival of the dead. The ancient Celts believed that the border between this world and the Otherworld became thin on Samhain, allowing spirits (both harmless and harmful) to pass through. The family&#8217;s ancestors were honored and invited home while harmful spirits were warded off. It is believed that the need to ward off harmful spirits led to the wearing of costumes and masks. Their purpose was to disguise oneself as a harmful spirit and thus avoid harm. In Scotland the spirits were impersonated by young men dressed in white with masked, veiled or blackened faces. Samhain was also a time to take stock of food supplies and slaughter livestock for winter stores. Bonfires played a large part in the festivities. All other fires were doused and each home lit their hearth from the bonfire. The bones of slaughtered livestock were cast into its flames.<sup> </sup>Sometimes two bonfires would be built side-by-side, and people and their livestock would walk between them as a cleansing ritual.</p>
<p>Another common practice was, divination which often involved the use of food and drink.  The name &#8216;Halloween&#8217; and many of its present-day traditions derive from the Old English era.  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halloween</p></blockquote>
<p>The Bible doesn’t speak directly about Halloween, but some biblical principles apply. One overriding principle is clear &#8212; all pagan practices should be avoided. Witchcraft, occult practices, sorcery, etc. are strictly forbidden in the Bible (Exodus 22:18; Acts 8:9-24; Acts 16, 19). It is obvious that a small child dressing up as a character to go trick or treating isn’t involving themselves directly with witchcraft but what are the boundaries that a responsible Christian parent should set up?</p>
<p>Parents, the decision is up to you, but do not proceed in your decision from a place of ignorance.</p>
<p>If you decide Halloween is something fun for your children, it is probably most important that they are kept far away from the evil aspects of Halloween. When believers participate in anything (even Halloween), their attitudes, dress, and behavior should glorify Christ.</p>
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		<title>Amount of Snow Totals for October in Denver May Hit an All Time High!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 16:09:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ I have lived in the Denver area for thirty-three years and this is a new one for me.
This amount of snow in October is just plain scary!
 Whatever happened to global warming?
Anyway, I am trying to decide whether I should attempt to hold Bible study for the brave hearts that will traverse the roads [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1578&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="alignleft" src="http://s3images.classcreator.com/5262/001/705105/232299.jpg" alt="" width="259" height="409" /><span style="color:#000000;"> I have lived in the Denver area for thirty-three years and this is a new one for me.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#000000;"><strong>This amount of snow in <span style="text-decoration:underline;">October</span> is just plain scary!</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#000000;"><strong><img class="alignright" src="http://sunchildgirl.com/images/random/A-pumpkin.jpg" alt="" width="115" height="174" /></strong> Whatever happened to global warming?</span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#000000;">Anyway, I am trying to decide whether I should attempt to hold Bible study for the brave hearts that will traverse the roads tonight?</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">Do you think that I should cancel?</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">If you have an opinion please comment.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">I will make the decision some time around noon, Thursday, October 29 and post it here.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000000;">Please feel free to weigh in on the matter!</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#800000;">After much discussion, it has been decided. We have opted to be safe rather than sorry.  The men&#8217;s and the women&#8217;s Bible studies scheduled for Oct. 29th at 6:30 P.M. have been <span style="color:#ff0000;">CANCELLED</span> due to snow! Stay in and stay safe!<br />
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<p style="text-align:left;">Friday morning Women&#8217;s Bible Study will proceed as usual!</p>
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		<title>Lucy Analyzes Charlie Brown</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 01:46:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today in Denver we had a snow storm and too much time on my hands always gets me into trouble.  I was perusing You tube and came across this video.  Many of you know how much I love Lucy Van Pelt the independent and always right nemesis of Charlie Brown. Well, she got the best [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1572&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Today in Denver we had a snow storm and too much time on my hands always gets me into trouble.  I was perusing You tube and came across this video.  Many of you know how much I love Lucy Van Pelt the independent and always right nemesis of Charlie Brown. Well, she got the best of me, the psychotherapist in me could not pass watching this video and now I must pass it on to you.  Lucy is a little too much like many women I know <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  Let&#8217;s have a little mercy girls!!!</p>
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		<title>2009 Crossroads Women&#8217;s Christmas Tea &#8212;  &#8220;A Christmas Dream Come True&#8221;</title>
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&#8220;A Christmas Dream Come True&#8221; is the title of our upcoming Women&#8217;s Christmas Tea and Holiday Celebration.  This year &#8220;The Women at Crossroads&#8221; will host two sittings for tea with accompanying &#8220;Holiday Celebration&#8221; performances.
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<p>&#8220;A Christmas Dream Come True&#8221; is the title of our upcoming Women&#8217;s Christmas Tea and Holiday Celebration.  This year &#8220;The Women at Crossroads&#8221; will host two sittings for tea with accompanying &#8220;Holiday Celebration&#8221; performances.</p>
<p>In addition to the traditional &#8220;high tea&#8221; served in an English style, the celebration part of the event, includes a program of about one hour in length&#8211;featuring music, drama and inspirational Christmas entertainment.</p>
<p><strong>The 2009 dates for these popular events are Saturday December 5th at 12:30 P.M. and Saturday December 12th at 12:30 P.M. </strong>The seating is by reservation only and the ticket cost per person is $17.50, (for those interested in purchasing an entire table) each table seats ten.</p>
<p><strong>Tickets will go on sale Sunday November 1st</strong> before the 9:00 A.M. service at the Women&#8217;s Ministry Counter on the east side of the main lobby at Crossroads Church of Denver. <strong>The ticket counter will open at 8:30 A.M.</strong></p>
<p>This year the Holiday Celebration of &#8220;A Christmas Dream Come True&#8221; will feature vocal performances by Kory Brunson and Angela White; two gifted young artists familiar to Denver audiences.  The Kory Brunson band will supply the music with vocal support provided by The Crossroads Worship team.</p>
<p>The event will also feature a menu of superb tea delicacies supplied by Fancy to Fantasy Catered Affairs with impeccable service provided by the men and youth of Crossroads Church of Denver. Semi-formal Christmas attire is suggested for those in attendance.</p>
<p>Last year all tickets for this event sold out well before the performances, so we advise purchasing your tickets early.</p>
<p>We hope to see you there!</p>
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When the topic of love letters is brought up among women there is always a mixed reaction.  For some lucky women they can remember back to a time when an enthralled lover took the time to meticulously compose his admirations for them and send it off.
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<p>When the topic of love letters is brought up among women there is always a mixed reaction.  For some lucky women they can remember back to a time when an enthralled lover took the time to meticulously compose his admirations for them and send it off.</p>
<p>However for others, you can see the “but I’ve never received one” look of disappointment in their eyes. In this day and age that is so far from the romantic times of days gone by&#8211;many women have missed the chance to receive a real love letter.  They have failed to experience the exhilaration of reading a letter painstakingly written and sent to them by the one who loves them.  In a time when each young man has at his disposal a cell phone from which to verbalize his affections or quickly text his feelings&#8211;alas, love letters it seems have gone out of style.</p>
<p>The good news is, that all women have received at least one glorious love letter they can boast about.  God has sent each of us a very elaborate love letter that virtually drips with His care. The Bible is a love letter sent straight from the heart of God to each person and it magnificently explains the parameters of His divine affection.</p>
<p>It is rarely enough for any truly creative and inspired author to merely write “I love you” and the Creator of the Universe is no exception.  God has placed in our hands a collection of writings supernaturally infused and filled with the perfect embellishments to melt our hearts.</p>
<p>Now to be sure, some parts of the Holy Writ warm the heart more than others, but there are within the Book certain passages that literally cry out to be read over and over.  By definition love letters are filled with passion, and of all literature, love letters are the words most often kept, treasured and memorized.  Similarly, God’s love letters are also passion filled and memorable. Indeed, within God’s wonderful love anthology there are some verses that veritably deserve to be inscribed on the recipient’s heart.</p>
<p>One of the wonderful things about God’s love letters to us are the things that they reveal about Him. If we were given the life-time correspondences of any person, we would probably move first to the love letters, knowing that incased in these we would find the most intimate and candid portrait of the correspondent. And likewise, as we consider the Word of God, it is especially within certain “love passages” that we receive a special illumination of the Lover of our Soul.  A collection of love letters written over time is always especially revealing, each letter exposing a different aspect of a multi-faceted affection. And God’s love correspondences with us are like that; one a letter of declaration, the next of affirmation, another speaking of His needs and supplications and best of all those that envelop revelation—and the Lover’s plan and dream for our future.</p>
<p>So why exactly does anyone take the time to write a love letter when they could just as easily speak their love? And why would God in Heaven see fit to leave us with such a catalog of written expressions of His love? One expert on the subject has delineated some reasons I believe provide some interesting insights into the topic.</p>
<p>“We write letters because we want to be close to someone who is physically absent.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;We write letters to allow for graceful expressions that might be hard to deliver in person.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;We write letters because they are more potent than verbal declarations and because it is a considered thing that time spent on a love letter allows for refinement towards perfection.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;We write letters because they last, to be read again and again.&#8221;</p>
<p>And finally, &#8220;we write letters because we know someone wants them.” (quoted from Love Letters by Michelle Lovric).</p>
<p>In closing, no one can hear often enough that they are loved, or be reminded frequently enough about the delight that the one who loves them finds in them.  We are all made for relationship and the Bible teaches that loving expressions and affirmations provide for a healthy psyche.  They are literally like enriching food or healing balm for the soul (Prov 16:24).</p>
<p>Humans thrive on loving messages and there is no one among us who should deprive themselves of the sustenance that expressed love supplies.  And the fortunate truth is there is no need that anyone should go without.  The “love letters of God” are there waiting for anyone who will pick them up and read them and His loving messages provide the finest feast of all.</p>
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		<title>Beware Fall Fall-out, Shelter Needed from Death by Watching&#8230;</title>
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 As the temperatures descend and the evenings get chilly most of us move indoors.  Fall leaves fly and the center of family life changes from the backyard and the patio grill to the family room and the entertainment center.  It is a natural change but beware the subtle fall-out that fall may bring to your [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1526&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p> As the temperatures descend and the evenings get chilly most of us move indoors.  Fall leaves fly and the center of family life changes from the backyard and the patio grill to the family room and the entertainment center.  It is a natural change but beware the subtle fall-out that fall may bring to your family nest.</p>
<p>Fall-out is a term that was invented in the nineteen-forties to describe a phenomenon connected to the after-math of a nuclear blast.  Fall-out is the word used for the slow descent of minute particles of toxic radio-active debris into the atmosphere. “Fall-out” expands outward from the site of an atomic explosion and becomes largely invisible, extremely poisonous and can lead to a slow-death for those who come in contact with it.  While the metaphor is admittedly a bit overstated, the sad truth is that the effects of a fall-winter-and-spring spent tied to an entertainment center, can produce its own version of a deadly fall-out—a deadly fall-out that leads to what can only be termed “life-decay.” </p>
<p>Today the number one form of leisure activity in the United States is T.V. watching.  According to the Kaiser Family Foundation <strong><em>“American children and adolescents spend 22 to 28 hours per week viewing television more than any other single activity other than sleeping.  By the age of 70 they will have spent 7 to 10 years of their lives watching T.V.”</em>  </strong>Former president George Bush on C-SPAN in an interview about American T.V. consumption stated, <strong><em>“They put an off button on the T.V. for a reason.  Turn it off…I don’t watch much T.V.  </em></strong>His wife<strong> </strong>Laura Bush an ex-librarian and reading advocate categorically stated, <strong><em>“Children cannot learn to read by watching television.  Television is just background noise and a distraction.”  </em></strong>Prominent voices seem to agree that too much T.V. watching is not a good thing. <strong><em> </em></strong></p>
<p>If the inordinate amount of wasted time spent by children and others watching were not enough there are other deleterious effects linked with excess T.V.  It should be pointed out that—for every hour spent in front of the tube—over fifteen minutes of that hour is spent solely in the viewing of advertising.  Commercials are the centerpiece of programming and are meant to penetrate our minds with thoughts of consumption, need and greed.  Jerry Mander, an expert on media and its effects on society explains, <strong><em>“While watching television, the viewer is not seeing the world as it is.  He or she is looking at a world created by advertising.  Television programs are put together with the conscious attitude of promoting a consumer society.  </em></strong>The fall-out of television advertising overload is a spirit-poisoning, self indulgent attitude that subtly begins to creep in and controls us.  The consequence for our society is an ever-expanding consumerism that keeps us all knowing exactly what we must obtain next if we are to be truly happy.   </p>
<p>Consumerism isn’t the only kind of harmful fallout American families who are glued to the tube are susceptible to.  The harmful fallout from T.V. watching is not limited to the effects of overdosing on advertising.  In 2009, the number one type of T.V. programming was “Reality T.V.” a popular style of programming with its own set of dangers.  “Reality T.V.” is that genre of T.V. that has no real story, no content, it is just watching someone else experiencing some part of life while you sit back and voyeuristically observe. </p>
<p>Millions of people each night settle for living life vicariously through others while life passes them by.  They watch the loves, the losses, the adventures, the successes, of strangers on the small screen while experiencing little “true living” themselves.  Reality T.V. is a type of video entertainment fraught with serious fallout. We are on the verge of becoming a nation who “loves to watch” above all else.  We put on hold our emotional, our physical and our spiritual interactions—in order to spend hours watching—and the result is a numbing slow death to what it means to be human beings created in the image of God with a plan and a purpose.</p>
<p> This fall as you move indoors consider the invisible fall fall-out your family becomes vulnerable to as you face off with the entertainment center once again.  Pay attention to how much time you spend in front of screens—inactive and focused on “synthetic life” with its demands and absorptions.  As the leaves fall why not consider turning over a new leaf and make each hour of each day more productive and full of living and giving.  You may need to schedule some alternative activities to fill the vacuum left by fewer hours in front of the T.V.  Why not take a walk and talk to God, prepare a home cooked meal with the family and catch up on small talk, attend a small group fellowship with friends, go for a Starbuck’s with your spouse and have some “couples time”, or get creative and start that home improvement project you’ve been putting off.  Experience LIFE that’s what living is all about!</p>
<p>Contemplate the reality that we are all God’s workmanship created for a life time of living out good works that He has planned for us (see Eph. 2:10).  I don’t know about you but I don’t want to miss out on the abundant life God planned for me because I fell numb under the effects of video fall-out, a life-decaying—death—by watching.</p>
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		<title>Authenticity = Totally Undisputed Credibility; The Difference Between Character and Reputation</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is fascinating to me in our contemporary culture,  how easy it can be for an individual to foist a reputation that is based on very little true substance. 
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<p style="text-align:left;">Our current society feasts on the fluff of evaporating charisma while it starves for the true grit and moral fiber that is needed to shape history.   It has become simpler and simpler to manufacture a reputation with little or no personal foundation to back it up.  </p>
<p style="text-align:left;">At every venue in society&#8211;the media, politics and even in church&#8211; bigger than life personas grab center stage with very little conscience about their ability to back up their act.  Things that used to matter, like character, authenticity of heart and a call to serve others have fallen by the wayside and are being negligently overlooked. </p>
<p style="text-align:left;">In short,<strong> </strong>in my opinion, <strong>character is very different than reputation.  </strong>Below, in the remainder of this post, I have put together some quotes to stimulate thinking on the subject.  Please feel free to comment and add your thoughts about the differences you observe between character and reputation.      </p>
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<p align="center"><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Do You Have Character or Reputation?</span></strong></p>
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<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is seeming; character is being.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is manufactured; character is grown.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is your photograph; character is your face.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is what men say you are;</strong> <strong>character is what God knows you are.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is what you need to get a job;</strong> <strong>character is what you need to keep it.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is what comes over you from without;</strong> <strong>character is what rises up within.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is what you have when you come to town;</strong> <strong>character is what you have when you go away.</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Reputation is what is chiseled on your tombstone;</strong> <strong>character is what the angels say about you</strong> <strong>before the throne of God.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Quote by Robert Stuart MacArthur, <em>Quick Truths in Quaint Texts </em></p>
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		<title>Ten Great Personal Benefits to Blogging</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 23:17:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1.         Blogging allows you to meet interesting new people that you would not ordinarily meet and it is a great tool for introducing yourself to others.
2.         Blogging is a great way to get attention to the cause of Christ and share information about your personal mission.  In less than one year (9 months) I have [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1471&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><img class="alignleft" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2211/2404978535_abd347c8b0.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="260" />1.         Blogging allows you to meet interesting new people that you would not ordinarily meet and it is a great tool for introducing yourself to others.</p>
<p>2.         Blogging is a great way to get attention to the cause of Christ and share information about your personal mission.  In less than one year (9 months) I have had nearly 16,000 visitors to my blog and with each one I have had the chance to share insights about my personal relationship with Jesus Christ. My blog has greatly enhanced my personal ability to be a witness and share the testimony of my walk with Jesus Christ.</p>
<p>3.<strong>         </strong>Blogging is a means of self documentation.  A blog helps you document many of the facets of your personal life.  It is a tool to help you express what you are experiencing, believing and feeling at a given point in time.  I value my blog because it is a valuable personal resource and an online record of my life that I can easily go back to and reference later.  </p>
<p>4.         Blogging helps you leave a legacy. I write because I love writing will survive allowing my kid and grandkids to see a different side of me. I wouldn’t mind writing a book someday, but until then my blog is something I am proud of that is a compilation of my beliefs, experiences, thoughts and creativity.</p>
<p>5.         Blogging can be a team sport: you can get a lot of people in a community involved in blogging and when the interaction starts it can be really fun. Blogging is simple to do and doesn&#8217;t require a lot of technological genius to get started.  A great side benefit is that it is easily accessible to a wide range of people. When I started blogging I was not very computer savvy, but in no time at all I had learned the ropes and I was reaping the benefits.</p>
<p>6.         Blogging helps you become better at using words.<em> </em>Writing is much more comfortable than speaking for a lot of people.  When writing we can think without the pressure of  having “the immediate right words” to say.  The written word, plus current technology gives us the opportunity to go back and edit statements.  In my life the opportunity to undo and amend my thoughts before communicating them has been a big plus</p>
<p><em>7.</em>         Blogging is a vehicle that can be used to declare your personal dream or vision. What I blog tends to be a declaration of what I believe is the right attitude to have, the right way to behave or the right thing to do.  My posts reflect what I am dreaming of and the way I wish things were.  While writing is much easier than doing, recording things in an organized way is a definite step towards pin pointing and actualizing the dream that is in one’s heart.</p>
<p>8.         Blogging expands your personal horizons. Blogging not only allows you to share stories about your expertise, but it also gives you the opportunity to post photos, videos, and audios fairly easily and the creative options are endless. Blogging has given my readers a multimedia experience with me!</p>
<p>9.         Blogging gives you an audience of supporters and detractors. If your mission, dream or vision has a passionate edge to it, a blog has the ability to join you with supporters, which validates your cause.  And on the other hand a blog also supplies you with access to a pool of detractors giving them a place to voice their concerns and opinions. It is important to be in touch with supporters and detractors because this can only serve to hone your focus and sharpen your reasoning abilities and skills.</p>
<p>10.       Finally, blogging will cause you to have to learn more. It is a richer life when you are constantly on the lookout for more opportunities to learn, more insights to be gathered and more wisdom to be shared.</p>
<p><strong>These are some of the reasons I blog.  How has blogging been beneficial to your life?  Please feel free to comment.</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 08:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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Today is a day for honoring fathers.  I have a wonderful Christian father.
And a wonderful Christian husband who is the father of my children.
 I am doubly blessed!
 My husband is not perfect but in building a family and raising our children he has always sought the wisdom and power of the Lord and I couldn’t have [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1447&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>Today is a day for honoring fathers.  I have a wonderful Christian father.</p>
<p>And a wonderful Christian husband who is the father of my children.</p>
<p> I am doubly blessed!</p>
<p> My husband is not perfect but in building a family and raising our children he has always sought the wisdom and power of the Lord and I couldn’t have asked for more.</p>
<p> Many years ago he wrote this stanza in a song called “Family Ties” and it sums up his humility and dependence on Jesus.   </p>
<p><strong><em>I’m not good at walk’in on the water, </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Or turning water into wine, </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>But I’ll keep a family fed, </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>With the help of the one Who did. </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Two hearts make a family tie.</em></strong></p>
<p>I am grateful that my husband knows the True Source of life and all wisdom and I honor him today for his solid uncompromising commitment to our Savior.   Tom&#8217;s focus on following Jesus and putting Him first has been a wonderful example and made him an awesome father for over thirty-five years.  Thank you, honey for a job well done!</p>
<p>The Bible makes it clear that we should honor our fathers.  Commandment number five of the Ten Commandments is: <strong><em>&#8220;Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.</em></strong> Ex 20:12 (NIV).</p>
<p>Today we celebrate a national holiday for dads, but it has not always been that way, the history of a day set aside to honor fathers is only about a century old.</p>
<p><strong> The History of Father&#8217;s Day</strong></p>
<blockquote><p> The first known celebration of Father&#8217;s Day was on July 5, 1908 in Fairmont, West Virginia, where it was commemorated at William Memorial Methodist Episcopal Church South – now known as Central United Methodist Church. Grace Golden Clayton is believed to have suggested it to her pastor after a deadly explosion in nearby Monongah in December, killing 361 men.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p> It was also during a sermon in 1909 that Sonora Smart Dodd became inspired by Mother&#8217;s Day. After the death of her mother, Sonora and her siblings were raised by their father William Jackson Smart, a Civil War veteran. Sonora wanted to show how thankful she was to her father and, because William was born in June, she worked to have the first Father&#8217;s Day celebrated on June 19, 1910.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>In 1924, President Coolidge recommended that Father&#8217;s Day become a national holiday.</p>
<p>President Johnson designated the third Sunday of June to be Father&#8217;s Day in 1966.</p>
<p>It was not until 1972 that President Nixon instituted Father&#8217;s Day as a national observance.</p></blockquote>
<p>Info for this section was taken from history.com&#8211; for more on the history of Father&#8217;s Day and inspiring storys of contemporary dads follow this link: <a href="http://www.history.com/content/fathersday/history-of-father-s-day">http://www.history.com/content/fathersday/history-of-father-s-day</a></p>
<p><strong>Happy Father&#8217;s Day</strong></p>
<p><strong>Feel free to comment and share why you honor your Dad!</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 03:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t want to get too personal but do you ever pray?
In the last two years I have prayed more than at any other time in my entire life.
Yet, the challenges just keep on coming. 
This Sunday I heard a sermon on the value of persistence in prayer and the biblical text examined was Luke 18.   
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<p>In the last two years I have prayed more than at any other time in my entire life.</p>
<p>Yet, the challenges just keep on coming. </p>
<p>This Sunday I heard a sermon on the value of persistence in prayer and the biblical text examined was Luke 18.   </p>
<p>The Holy Spirit convicted me even more about the necessity of  &#8221;always praying and not losing heart.&#8221;   </p>
<p>I could use some encouragement.  How has long term persistence in prayer paid off in your life?  Are there any testimonies out there?  Please feel free to comment!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I took some much needed time off this week. It was a brief respite away from home and my daily grind but it yielded great benefits. 
 
Given a few days away, I began the gradual unwinding process that is always needed and required for me to find true rest. 
 
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<p><em>Given a few days away, I began the gradual unwinding process that is always needed and required for me to find true rest. </em></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-weight:normal;"><em>T</em></span><span style="font-weight:normal;"><em>oday, I am back at home and I am much more in touch with my need for rejuvenation and restoration and the need for us all have to have </em></span><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="font-weight:normal;text-decoration:none;"><em>Sabbath-rest</em></span></span><span style="font-weight:normal;"><em> for our souls.  As a result of contemplating the topic of rest, reminding myself of the basic info and doing a little research; I came up with the following post.</em></span></strong><em><br />
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<p>The Bible orders us to rest.  In fact—one of the “big ten” in terms of commandments is the charge “to remember the Sabbath rest and keep it holy.”</p>
<p>Ex 20:8-11, tells us, <strong><em>&#8220;Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your female servant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.”</em></strong></p>
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<p>The root idea of Sabbath rest is simple.  It is as simple as the changing of seasons and as basic as the inhale-exhale process of breathing— living things were designed by God to flourish only with a pattern of regular rest and rejuvenation. </p>
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<p>The Bible specifies the need for one day of rest out of each seven day interval.  And a day in Scripture is always measured from one evening to the end of the following day-light period. Gen. 1:5 states, <strong><em>God called the light Day, and the darkness He called Night. So the evening and the morning were the first day.</em></strong>  In accordance with this the Jewish Sabbath began in the evening and ran from sunset to sunset. </p>
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<p>Jewish tradition also dictated that the weekly “rest interlude” was always preceded by a time of preparation.  Beginning at 3 P.M. every Friday the faithful would prepare their food for the next day and perform all labors which were forbidden on the Sabbath and yet had to be done. Before sunset they would bathe and purify themselves, dress in their festive apparel, set their tables, and light their lamps.</p>
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<p>The observance of the Sabbath always began with the Hebrew family partaking of the pre-prepared Sabbath meal followed by prayers and the compulsory call for the whole household to sleep.  The arrival of night and the opportunity to sleep was not only a necessity but symbolically it provided a natural relinquishment of control.  A good night’s sleep broke the cadence of work and set a rhythm for the entire Sabbath rest period. When we are sleeping, we cannot be working, we cannot direct anything, or control anything and we give ourselves temporarily over to God’s care.  A believer shuts his eyes and believes that the Lord will take care of him through the night.  Appropriately the first hours of Sabbath observance were spent sleeping.</p>
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<p>Sabbath rest is a time that is supposed to be sanctified or set-apart for God’s use in our lives. However in our present day American culture few of us have really understood or appreciated the concept.  What we don’t seem to understand is the fact that Sabbath rest is not just discretionary free time.  It is not just a block of open time to be utilized as we see fit.  Sabbath rest in actuality is to be used in a deliberate manner for rest and restoration of body, soul and spirit.  And in remembering the Sabbath, we are to put aside work but we are also to put aside our own time agendas and even the act of creating.</p>
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<p>Many people miss the importance of taking into consideration the Sabbath that God Himself modeled for us.  God initiated Sabbath rest first and foremost by resting from creating.  In Gen 2:3 we are told <strong><em>“And God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done</em></strong>.”  If God needed to rest after creation how much more do we also need to be re-created after our creating? Working wears us out and creating pulls from our pool of resources and literally empties us out!  We do not have unlimited resources as God does and as humans beings our finite resources are limited and must be restored.  We cannot be creative, fruitful, and productive or reach our long term potential without Sabbath rest.</p>
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<p>One of the largest obstacles to true Sabbath-keeping in contemporary life is leisure.  Leisure competes with the concept of Sabbath and is what Sabbath-rest tends to become when we don’t know how to sanctify our time.  The definition of leisure is “vacant time without occupation to be used at one’s will.”  Leisure is an attempt at Sabbath rest without any focus on the sacred aspects.  One author has rightly stated that “the Golden Rule of Sabbath Rest is to cease from what is necessary and instead embrace God and what truly gives life!”</p>
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<p>Some present day believer’s may bristle under the call to Sabbath rest because they believe it to be an antiquated Old Testament ritual. The necessity of rest however is not just an Old Testament pronouncement; the need for rest is emphasized throughout the entire Bible.</p>
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<p>Jesus promised that knowledge of Him would bring rest for the soul. <strong><em>Come to Me, all </em><em>you</em><em> who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. </em></strong><strong><em><sup>30</sup></em></strong><strong><em> For My yoke </em></strong><em><strong>is</strong></em><strong><em> easy and My burden is light.&#8221;   </em></strong>Matt 11:28-30 (NKJV).  And He insisted that his disciples should rest. <strong><em>The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught. </em></strong><strong><em><sup>31</sup></em></strong><strong><em> Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, &#8220;Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.&#8221;</em></strong> <em>Mark 6:30-31 (NIV)</em></p>
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<p>The Bible proclaims that a pattern of sanctified rest is a vital and needed practice because it supplies us body, soul and spirit with what is needed to survive and thrive as humans.  The Bible teaches that rest it is an important vehicle for “making contact with God.  God tells Moses in Exodus 33 that rest and His presence go hand in hand,<strong><em> &#8220;My Presence will go</em> <em>with you</em><em>,</em><em> and I will give you rest.”  </em></strong>Psalm 46:10 states clearly, <em><strong>Be still, and know that I am God. </strong>  </em>The<em> </em>central nature of rest is underlined for us in psalm 23.  In the familiar psalm David speaks of the Good Shepherd’s dogged determination to make his beloved sheep rest,<strong> <em>He <span style="text-decoration:underline;">makes</span> me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters.</em></strong><strong><em><sup> </sup></em></strong><strong><em>He restores my soul;</em></strong> <em>Psalms 23:2-3 (NKJV)</em><strong>.  </strong></p>
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<p>Rest is a physical reminder that we are not in control of everything and that at the end of the day; we are not the ones who have the power to hold it all together.  After all, ultimately managing things—being in control&#8211; is God’s job and we need to remind ourselves of that regularly (say at least once a week).  During busy times it’s easy to be distracted from our relationship with God and treat our work as if it is our God.  We must not however fall prey to work-worship for very long.   If we make work our God we can in an incredibly short time find ourselves reaping some very serious consequences. </p>
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<p>Work-worship has the ability to take an incredible toll on a human being and can jeopardize our physical, emotional and spiritual health.  As Christians living in this incredibly stressful era we must repent and hear the clarion call back to one of the most basic principles of life and give God the time that is due Him. When we practice sanctified rest we focus back on God and allow Him to restore us—and that is a very good and necessary thing.</p>
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<p><strong>What are the culprits in your life that keep you from realizing the divinely ordained benefits of Sabbath rest?  Have you fallen victim to inserting leisure into the place of Sabbath rest in your weekly routine?  What is your opinion about the priority you believe Sabbath rest should play in the lives of contemporary believers?  Please feel free to reply to these questions or any other question this post spurs in your mind.  As always any comments are encouraged and welcomed!</strong></p>
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		<title>Memorial Day is About Remembering&#8230;</title>
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<p>I come from a family that will always remember a great loss.  My uncle Ted Morton was killed in action in Korea in 1951 and was MIA for seventeen months before they located his body in a shallow grave on a Korean beach.  He was an infantryman in the army and had been killed rushing from a troop carrier onto the beach in the heat of battle.  He was 19 years old when he died. </p>
<p>I was not born until a few years after his death but my childhood was touched by his memory and I especially remember the on going grief of my grandmother.  My younger brother Ted Morton George is named in honor of my uncle.  Because of my family&#8217;s loss and the losses of so many other families I think Memorial Day is a holiday we should all remember.</p>
<p>The history of Memorial Day goes back to the years following the civil war when our nation was desperately trying to mend after a horrific war that had taken a great toll in terms of American lives.</p>
<p>The history.com gives the following account of the history of Memorial Day.  <a href="http://www.history.com/content/memorial/the-history-of-memorial-day">http://www.history.com/content/memorial/the-history-of-memorial-day</a></p>
<blockquote><p><span style="color:#000000;">Memorial Day was originally known as Decoration Day because it was a time set aside to honor the nation&#8217;s </span><span style="color:#000000;">Civil War</span><span style="color:#000000;"> dead by decorating their graves. It was first widely observed on May 30, 1868, to commemorate the sacrifices of </span><span style="color:#000000;">Civil War </span><span style="color:#000000;">soldiers, by proclamation of General </span><span style="color:#000000;">John A. Logan</span><span style="color:#000000;"> of the Grand Army of the Republic, an organization of former sailors and soldiers. On May 5, 1868, Logan declared in General Order No. 11 that:</span></p>
<p><em><span style="color:#000000;">The 30th of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers, or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village, and hamlet churchyard in the land. In this observance no form of ceremony is prescribed, but posts and comrades will in their own way arrange such fitting services and testimonials of respect as circumstances may permit.</span></em></p>
<p><span style="color:#000000;">During the first celebration of Decoration Day, </span><span style="color:#000000;">General James Garfield</span><span style="color:#000000;"> made a speech at </span><span style="color:#000000;">Arlington National Cemetery</span><span style="color:#000000;">, after which 5,000 participants helped to decorate the graves of the more than 20,000 Union and Confederate soldiers buried in the cemetery.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000000;">This 1868 celebration was inspired by local observances of the day in several towns throughout America that had taken place in the three years since the </span><span style="color:#000000;">Civil War</span><span style="color:#000000;">. In fact, several Northern and Southern cities claim to be the birthplace of Memorial Day, including Columbus, Miss.; Macon, Ga.; Richmond, Va.; Boalsburg, Pa.; and Carbondale, Ill.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000000;">In 1966, the federal government, under the direction of President </span><span style="color:#000000;">Lyndon Johnson</span><span style="color:#000000;">, declared Waterloo, N.Y., the official birthplace of Memorial Day. They chose Waterloo—which had first celebrated the day on May 5, 1866—because the town had made Memorial Day an annual, community-wide event during which businesses closed and residents decorated the graves of soldiers with flowers and flags.</span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000000;">By the late 1800s, many communities across the country had begun to celebrate Memorial Day and, after </span><span style="color:#000000;">World War I</span><span style="color:#000000;">, observances also began to honor those who had died in all of </span><span style="color:#000000;">America&#8217;s wars</span><span style="color:#000000;">. In 1971, Congress declared Memorial Day a national holiday to be celebrated the last Monday in May. </span></p>
<p><span style="color:#000000;">Today, Memorial Day is celebrated at </span><span style="color:#000000;">Arlington National Cemetery</span><span style="color:#000000;"> with a ceremony in which a small American flag is placed on each grave. Also, it is customary for the president or vice-president to give a speech honoring the contributions of the dead and lay a wreath at the </span><span style="color:#000000;">Tomb of the Unknown Soldier</span><span style="color:#000000;">. About 5,000 people attend the ceremony annually.&#8221;</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color:#000000;">This year Congress has called for a moment of relection at 3:00 P.M. to show unity and a return to the sacred nature of this holiday.  CNN reported,</span></p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The time 3 p.m. was chosen because it is the time when most Americans are enjoying their freedoms on the national holiday,&#8221; according to the White House Commission on Remembrance. Congress established the National Moment of Remembrance.</p>
<p>&#8220;The Moment does not replace traditional Memorial Day events; rather it is an act of national unity in which all Americans, alone or with family and friends, honor those who died for our freedom,&#8221; the Commission on Remembrance said on its Web site.</p>
<p>&#8220;It will help to reclaim Memorial Day as the sacred and noble holiday it was meant to be. In this shared remembrance, we connect as Americans.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color:#000000;">Has your family suffered a loss of a loved one in the service of our country?  Have you been touched by the death of a brave member of our armed services?  I would like to know of your loss and give you a chance to remember.  Please feel free to leave a response or comment to this post.  In tribute to all those who have served or are serving I have included the following video tribute.</span></p>
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		<title>Meek and Humble Christians, What a Concept!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 22:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At times I grow weary of the way Christians posture themselves with one another.  
Sometimes it seems to me that the main objective of evangelicalism has degraded to being all about &#8220;correctness.&#8221;
Rather than shining forth the characteristics of Christ and being a beacon of love, peace, mercy and humility to each other and to a hurting world; I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1347&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>Sometimes it seems to me that the main objective of evangelicalism has degraded to being all about &#8220;correctness.&#8221;</p>
<p>Rather than shining forth the characteristics of Christ and being a beacon of love, peace, mercy and humility to each other and to a hurting world; I find that more and more Christians are consumed with being &#8221;right.&#8221;  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you but I don&#8217;t want to be known for pride, arrogance and condescension.  I want to follow Jesus and to be his ambassador to those around me.  Today my prayer is Lord make me like you one who is &#8220;meek and lowly of heart.&#8221;</p>
<p><span style="color:#000000;"><em><strong>Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.</strong></em></span></p>
<p>Matt 11:28-30 (KJV)</p>
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		<title>Making a Believing Preparation for the Divine Blessing</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 23:24:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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A Word For Today
From Morning and Evening
by C.H. Spurgeon
Entry May 16th Evening Verse
 
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<p style="font-weight:bold;font-size:.96em;color:windowtext;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;text-align:center;margin:.8em 0 .4em;">From <em><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Morning and Evening</span></em></p>
<p style="font-weight:bold;font-size:.96em;color:windowtext;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;text-align:center;margin:.8em 0 .4em;">by C.H. Spurgeon</p>
<p style="font-weight:bold;font-size:.96em;color:windowtext;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;text-align:center;margin:.8em 0 .4em;">Entry May 16th Evening Verse</p>
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<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"><em><strong>&#8220;And he said, Thus saith the Lord, Make this valley full of ditches. For thus saith the Lord, Ye shall not see wind, neither shall ye see rain; yet that valley shall be filled with water, that ye may drink, both ye and your cattle, and your beasts.&#8221; </strong></em><a href="http://www.crossbooks.com/verse.asp?ref=2Ki+3%3A16-17"><em><strong>2Kings 3:16,17</strong></em></a></p>
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<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"><span style="text-indent:.25in;"><span style="color:#000000;">The armies of the three kings were famishing for want of water: God was about to send it, and in these words the prophet announced the coming blessing. Here was a case of <em>human helplessness</em>: not a drop of water could all the valiant men procure from the skies or find in the wells of earth. Thus often the people of the Lord are at their wits&#8217; end; they see the vanity of the creature, and learn experimentally where their help is to be found. </span></span></p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"><span style="text-indent:.25in;"><span style="color:#000000;">Still the people were to make <em>a believing preparation for the divine blessing</em>; they were to dig the trenches in which the precious liquid would be held. <span style="text-decoration:underline;">The church must by her varied agencies, efforts, and prayers, make herself ready to be blessed; she must make the pools, and the Lord will fill them.</span> </span></span></p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"><span style="text-indent:.25in;"><span style="color:#000000;">This must be done in faith, in the full assurance that the blessing is about to descend. By-and-by there was <em>a singular bestowal of the needed boon</em>. Not as in Elijah&#8217;s case did the shower pour from the clouds, but in a silent and mysterious manner the pools were filled. The Lord has His own sovereign modes of action: He is not tied to manner and time as we are, but doeth as He pleases among the sons of men. It is ours thankfully to receive from Him, and not to dictate to Him. </span></span></p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"><span style="text-indent:.25in;"><span style="color:#000000;">We must also notice <em>the remarkable abundance of the supply</em> &#8211;there was enough for the need of all. And so it is in the gospel blessing; all the wants of the congregation and of the entire church shall be met by the divine power in answer to prayer; and above all this, victory shall be speedily given to the armies of the Lord. </span></span></p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"> </p>
<p style="font-size:x-small;color:navy;font-family:Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;margin:0 5em .01em 2.5em;"><span style="text-indent:.25in;"><span style="color:#000000;">What am I doing for Jesus? What trenches am I digging? O Lord, make me ready to receive the blessing which Thou art so willing to bestow. </span></span></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 18:08:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many of you have commented that you just can&#8217;t get this song out of your head.  It is a good one by a young gal named Francesca Battistelli.  She won the dove award this year for best new Christian artist.  I love it, we should all be &#8220;Free To Be Me.&#8221;

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Many of you have commented that you just can&#8217;t get this song out of your head.  It is a good one by a young gal named Francesca Battistelli.  She won the dove award this year for best new Christian artist.  I love it, we should all be &#8220;<em><strong>Free To Be Me.&#8221;</strong></em></p>
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Throughout history, training in the areas of marital life, childbearing, mothering and homemaking have always been lessons best passed on through one-on-one relationships.  Generation to generation, the most important of life’s skills have been passed on informally in the context of community.  “True wisdom” has continued down a chain linking older to younger and more [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1313&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignleft" src="http://ibchighland.org/system/files/images/cup_hearts.jpg" alt="" width="134" height="160" />Throughout history, training in the areas of marital life, childbearing, mothering and homemaking have always been lessons best passed on through one-on-one relationships.  Generation to generation, the most important of life’s skills have been passed on informally in the context of community.  “True wisdom” has continued down a chain linking older to younger and more experienced to less experienced for millennia. The term given to this life-driven kind of guidance is mentoring. </p>
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<p><strong>           What is a </strong><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">M</span></strong><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">entor</span>?</strong></p>
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<p>The English word “mentor” has ancient origins; it is derived from Homer’s <strong><em>Odyssey</em></strong>.  In this Greek classic, Odysseus goes off to war and turns the guidance of his son, Telemachus, over to his friend, Mentor.  With his father gone, the boy is “mentored” by Mentor in the paths of life.  In the Bible, we see mentoring as the major means of educating women. Naomi takes on the guidance of her daughter-in-law, Ruth, Mordecai is a voice into the life of Esther and Elizabeth serves as a mentor to Mary.  The basis of the relationship is that the mentor has authority in the mentee’s life.  Due to this responsibility of speaking into the life of another, a mentor is usually a rare type of person. Mentors are individuals of unimpeachable credibility whose advice rings true. They are people whose past achievements back up their counsel and whose diverse experiences are what qualify them.  The accomplishments of the mentor should correspond with the area that she is mentoring in. For example, if you are a mentor for mothers, it is more important that you have raised a houseful of healthy children than that you possess a college degree. </p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>Why is <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Experience </span>the key?</strong></p>
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<p>Experience is the key to mentoring because mentors base their life-shaping instructions on their real life experiences rather than the teaching of empirical knowledge.  The mentor imparts what she’s learned through sharing stories, anecdotes and experiences, not through covering materials or working through a curriculum. Mentoring requires an intimate relationship characterized by vulnerability and spontaneity.</p>
<p>During mentoring, training occurs in a free-flowing informal exchange.  Mentoring takes place through conversation and hearty dialogue rather than monologue. A mentor is not a college professor in front of a classroom surrounded by students taking notes. Mentoring is less formal than teaching and more about the individual being mentored than the information that is being exchanged. It is because of this unique characteristic of mentoring that the mentor must check any personal agenda at the door. </p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"> <strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">No-Agenda</span> required!</strong></p>
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<p>In short, mentoring is not about one person living their life through another person.  Serving as a mentor is not about creating a mini-you. The mentee is a unique individual with unique talents and abilities who is following their own God-ordained course in life.  An overriding theme inmentoring is the intention to help someone help themselves. Wise mentors recognize that their guidance is most appreciated when it’s specifically asked for.  They offer up plenty of possible suggestions to their mentees without requiring a specific course of action.  They refrain as much as possible from telling their mentee what to do.  It is as if the mentor and mentee are driving down the road of life together.  The mentee is the one in the driver’s seat and the mentor is riding shot gun.  The mentor’s job is to ride along offering up advice and warning the driver about approaching bumps and turns but the mentor never takes the steering wheel and begins driving the car herself.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>What about <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Trust?</span></strong></p>
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<p>A solid mentor-mentee relationship is rooted in trust.  Trust has to be established from the beginning of the relationship and must deepen over time.  In a successful mentoring relationship a strong alliance will be built.  The mentee trusts that the mentor is on her side. The overall atmosphere of the relationship should be one of mutual sharing and caring. The mentor must be willing to give the valuable gift of their time to the mentee and it can never be a “don’t call me, I’ll call you,” arrangement.  The mentor makes herself available as needed within reasonable limits.  The best mentoring takes place in ordinary life settings where mentor and mentee have casual and regular exposure to one another.  In these life settings, the mentor can come along side the mentee as she tackles the normal obstacles of life.  </p>
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<p><strong>          Where do “life’s <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Obstacles</span>” fit in?</strong>  </p>
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<p>Learning how to overcome obstacles is one of the most important lessons mentors can pass on.  Obstacles in life create a learning curve and cause the mentee to be more open to receiving new input.  Obstacles make for teachable moments. The crisis makes any help the mentor is bringing even more meaningful and useful.  Mentors tap into their own experience banks for examples of how they confronted similar obstacles.  Tackling tough situations together is what bonds and cements a solid mentoring relationship.</p>
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<p><strong>       </strong><strong>When is <span style="text-decoration:underline;">“Real”</span> mentoring taking place?     </strong></p>
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<p>The atmosphere of the mentoring relationship is relaxed and real. An intimate mentor-mentee relationship necessitates genuine sharing of insights, observations and suggestions.  Mentors offer an objective ear but they also offer real accountability.  They are not meant to be syrupy-sweet cheerleaders offering only affirmation, or speaking only what their protégé wants to hear.  Mentors give feedback on performance and offer opinions and confrontation when it is called for.  A good mentor can share hard things with as much openness as easy things.</p>
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One of the most incredible parts of existing as a human being is coming to grips with the fact that we were created in the very image of God.  
 
As creations made expressly in His image He gave us a mind, will and emotions.  
 
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">One of the most incredible parts of existing as a human being is coming to grips with the fact that we were created in the very image of God.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">As creations made expressly in His image He gave us a mind, will and emotions.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">We have the ability to think, to feel and to make choices.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Francis Schaffer said, “…as God is a person He thinks, feels and acts: so I am a person who thinks, feels and acts.<span>  </span>Yet despite the reality that we were created to be all three </span><span style="font-family:&quot;">―</span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">intellectual, emotional and volitional in nature, many Christians today have emphasized the mind and the will to the exclusion of the emotions.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">This prejudice regarding the superiority of the mind is demonstrated in the current stream of evangelical thinking.<span>  </span>Among most evangelical Christians, the mark of spiritual maturity is the ability to acquire facts and store biblical knowledge.<span>  </span>Many church systems perpetuate the idea that the more biblical truth you can cram into your brain the more spiritually mature you are.<span>  </span>This is a fallacy.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">While knowledge of the Scriptures is important, spiritual maturity comes through transformation of the whole person.<span>  </span>It involves applying the Scripture in order to be conformed to Christ in our mind, will and emotions.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">The Bible is clear that the basic way to know whether a person is a Christian or not is not to assess how much a person knows but to look at how a person lives.<span>  </span>It is not only important that one think rightly one must also act rightly.<span>  </span>Jesus said, “By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Love is clearly an emotion, so evidently the expression of emotion in a believer’s life is also a vitally important part of Christian maturity.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Throughout the Bible, we see God expressing His emotions.<span>  </span>In the Old Testament, for example, one thing we are graphically taught is that God can be pleased and made happy and that God can also be displeased and moved to anger.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">In the New Testament, God’s emotional repertoire is definitely expanded.<span>  </span>We see Jesus as God incarnate expressing the entire myriad of human emotions.<span>  </span>He feels love, compassion, joy, fear, sorrow, grief, discouragement, frustration, hurt, loneliness and anger.<span>  </span>In fact, just like us, He experiences every emotion on the map and yet He does it all without sin. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Emotions despite the judgments many of us might make about them are neither negative nor positive.<span>  </span>They are neutral.<span>  </span>What we do with emotions is what causes the positive or negative impact on our lives.<span>  </span>How we express them determines the constructive or destructive quality of that emotion. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">What separates Jesus and His expressions of emotions from our expressions of emotions, is that Jesus felt emotions and always expressed them appropriately and without sin.<span>  </span>Jesus’ most common description of himself was, “I am meek and lowly of heart.”<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">The choice of the adjective meek is an interesting preference of descriptors. Meek is one of the great Greek ethical words and was a word charged with meaning for the first hearers.<span>  </span>It is an understatement to say that it does not have the same meaning today in our culture as it did in the culture of the original recipients.<span>  </span>While meekness in the culture extant at the time Jesus walked the earth <span>described a person who had every instinct, every impulse, every passion and every emotion under control, the term has been downgraded in our society to mean gentle</span>. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Use of the word “meek” today conjures up images of Casper Milktoast.<span>  </span>Meekness in the first century however, was attached to images of strength.<span>  </span>Meek meant <span style="text-decoration:underline;">power</span> put under control.<span>  </span>Now it has come to mean the opposite “powerlessness”.<span>  </span>In Jesus’ time, meek<span style="color:black;"> was commonly used to describe an animal which had been trained to obey the word of command from his master. It was used to describe a horse which had learned to answer perfectly to the reins. </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Meekness as an attribute said something very admirable about our Lord.<span>  </span>It said that although Jesus had all the resources to be all-powerful He chose to express himself as a person under restraint.<span>  </span>He expressed His personality, His emotions appropriately, always keeping His impulses and passions in check.<span>  </span>He was meek.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">As we desire to come into conformity with the nature of our Lord it also falls to Christians to cultivate meekness in their own lives.<span>  </span>We are to experience the full gamut of emotions that God created us to experience in his image, yet we should demonstrate true spiritual maturity and like Jesus exercise control over our emotions.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Jesus expressed righteous anger in the temple when He cast out the money-changers.<span>  </span>He chose to overturn their tables and run them out of the place.<span>  </span>It should be realized however, that He could have struck them dead on the spot, summoned angels from heaven to destroy the place or caused an earthquake to level the temple. He demonstrated control.<span>  </span>He exhibited the appropriate emotion with the appropriate force for that circumstance.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">In conclusion, emotions are a valid part of each of us created in God’s image.<span>  </span>As Christians, we should never deny, ignore or even downplay the emotional part of us.<span>   </span>True spiritual maturity involves being conformed to the image of Christ in our mind, will and emotions.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Christ expressed a wide variety of emotions in His life, yet always in appropriate ways at appropriate times. That should also be our goal.<span>  </span>We need to be truthful as we express the emotions that are inside of us; that’s what makes us human beings made in the image of God. The key is that as Christians, we must strive to communicate our emotions in proper God-honoring ways.</span></div>
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Linus’ buddy the little blonde girl may have had good results as an evangelist by hitting people over the head to get them to change their religious stance.  But in the current climate of religious change in our country; it is doubtful that hitting someone over the head&#8211;with your lunch box or even your version [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=womenatcrossroads.wordpress.com&blog=3752303&post=1253&subd=womenatcrossroads&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Linus’ buddy the little blonde girl may have had good results as an evangelist by hitting people over the head to get them to change their religious stance.<span>  </span>But in the current climate of religious change in our country;</span><span style="font-family:&quot;"> </span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">it is doubtful</span><span style="font-family:&quot;"> </span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">that</span><span style="font-family:&quot;"> </span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">hitting someone over the head</span><span style="font-family:&quot;">&#8211;</span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">with your lunch box or even your version of the truth for that matter&#8211;will yield much fruit. </span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Preaching the gospel is getting far more difficult in our county where resistance to Christianity is spreading.<span>  </span>The old tactics of competitive evangelism &#8211;“my truth is better than your truth”&#8211; are simply not as effective as they once were.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Many are calling for change in the predominant style of evangelism; a change that couples sharing gospel truths with demonstrations of Christ’s love and relationship in an impacting way.<span>  </span>In a post-modern America that is increasingly antagonistic to Christianity&#8211;just arguing for our version of the truth is frightfully anemic.</span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">America is no longer a Christian nation.</span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Just two weeks ago President Barack Obama stated at a press conference in Turkey that “<em>as Americans we no longer consider ourselves a Christian nation.”</em><span>  </span>This quote was startling to many people but in reality it was just Obama giving voice to the inevitable trend that is showing up everywhere — Christianity is no longer as popular or influential as it once was.</span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Obama’s comment came on the heels of a <span lang="EN">recently published cover article for Newsweek magazine. The article entitled <em>&#8220;The Decline and Fall of Christian America”</em></span></span></span><span style="font-size:11pt;color:#464339;font-family:Georgia;" lang="EN"> </span><span lang="EN"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">discussed the shift in the religious identifications of the United States and claimed that according to recent polls things look pretty dismal for Christianity.<span>  </span></span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span lang="EN"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">The article pointed out that the percentage of self-identified Christians has fallen over 10 percentage points since 1990, and meanwhile the number of Americans who claim no religious affiliation at all has nearly doubled in the same amount of time.</span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">While such statistics may seem jolting to some, Christianity’s slipping image is in actuality old news.<span>  </span>In 2007, in a book entitled </span><a href="http://www.barna.org/store?page=shop.product_details&amp;flypage=flypage.tpl&amp;product_id=1&amp;category_id=1&amp;keyword=unChristian"><strong><em><span style="color:windowtext;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">unChristian</span></span></em></strong></a><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">, Barna group president David Kinnaman, began revealing statistics about the spiraling downward popularity of Christianity.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">His research showed that: a decade ago the vast majority of Americans outside the Christian faith, including young people, felt favorably toward Christianity’s role in society.<span>  </span>While today, just 16% of non-Christians in their late teens and twenties said they have a &#8220;good impression&#8221; of Christianity. </span></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Kinnaman also illustrated that Christians seem aware of the shift in people’s perceptions of “the faith.”<span>  </span>Barna polls showing: that 91% of the nation’s evangelical Christians believe that &#8220;Americans are becoming more and more hostile and negative toward Christianity.&#8221;<span>  </span>The author, Kinnaman writes,<strong></strong></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><em><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">&#8220;Some Christians fear the changing reputation of Christianity and it certainly represents an uncomfortable future. Yet, rather than being defensive or dismissive, we should learn from critics, especially those young Christians who are expressing consternation about the state of faith in America. </span></span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Jesus told us to expect hostility and negative reactions. That is certainly nothing new. But the issue is what we do with it. Is it a chance to defend yourself and demand your rights? Or is it an opportunity to show people grace and truth?</span></span></em></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">In order to deal with the vanishing common ground between Christians and those outside the faith, Kinnaman and many others such as John Piper, Mark Devers, Francis Chan, Charles Colson and Rick Warren to name a few are all calling for changes in our evangelistic methodology. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">What these best selling Christian authors are saying is that Christians need to begin to deal realistically with the pessimistic and skeptical views that those outside of Christian circles possess and that we need to take measures to change their view of Christians.<em> </em></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">It seems to be a consensus that when we set out to evangelize in American society today, we must take into account the expanding hostile environment that surrounds us and have strategies to counter act the negativity. While it is true that none of us are perfect, our lives should lend credence to and speak well of the gospel we are preaching. <span> </span>And our interactions with others should be the confirming echo of our witness for Jesus Christ. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">It is taught throughout Scripture that our lives are meant to be God’s best advertisement in our community and that Christians corporately need to begin living that way.<span>  </span>Jesus Himself taught,</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong><em>Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.</em></strong><span>  </span></span></span><a href="http://bible.logos.com/passage/esv/Matthew%205.16" target="_blank"><span style="color:windowtext;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Matthew 5:16</span></span></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">And the Apostle Paul reiterated the same emphasis on lifestyle and relational evangelism in the epistles.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong><em>Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world.</em></strong><span>  </span></span></span><a href="http://bible.logos.com/passage/esv/Philippians%202.14-15" target="_blank"><span style="color:windowtext;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Philippians 2:14-15</span></span></a></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong><em><span style="font-size:small;">Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity.</span></em></strong><strong><em><sup><span style="font-size:8.5pt;">6</span></sup></em></strong><span style="font-size:small;"><strong><em> Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.</em></strong> Col 4:5-6 (NLT)</span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Real Christianity is an attractive thing when it is lived out and we as Christians need to take heed to that and begin to demonstrate it in the communities in which we live. Christian evangelism today needs to be a lot more about demonstrations of  Christian love, faith, relationship and the power of God to change lives and a lot less about correctness and aggressively assaulting the other guy’s truth before you have earned the right to speak. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">We need to learn from the advice of the Apostle Paul who in the first century was also operating in a culture that was antagonistic and suspicious of Christianity.<span>  </span>David Kinnaman has pointed out and I agree that Paul’s exhortation to “live wisely among those who are not Christians&#8217; and to &#8216;let your conversation be gracious and effective,” (Colossians 4:5-6, NLT) is perfect counsel to committed Christians in America today.<span>  </span></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;">Let’s put away our “I’ll hit you over the head with the truth” techniques of old and begin sharing the truth clothed in Christlike love, integrity and authenticity the way Jesus did and maybe then they will listen to our truth.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;">For more information on this topic see:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;"><em>unChristian</em> by David Kinnaman</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;"><em>Crazy Love</em> by Francis Chan</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;"><em>How then Shall We Live</em> by Charles Colson</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;">The Desiring God Pastors Conference 2009 John Piper &amp; Mark Devers</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;">Vision 2009 A Church God Can Grow by Maryellen Stipe <a href="mailto:W@C">W@C</a></span></p>
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		<dc:creator>Maryellen Stipe</dc:creator>
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In this so-called “post-modern” world one of the big buzz words repeated again and again is authenticity.  
 
Post-moderns want to be authentic and call for those around them to be authentic as well.
 
If you are foggy about the exact definitions of these terms, let me refresh your memory.
 
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">In this so-called “post-modern” world one of the big buzz words repeated again and again is authenticity.  </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Post-moderns want to be authentic and call for those around them to be authentic as well.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">If you are foggy about the exact definitions of these terms, let me refresh your memory.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong>authentic</strong>:<em> adjective</em> &#8212; not false or copied; genuine; real. </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong>authenticity</strong>: <em>noun</em> &#8212; the quality of being authentic; to have totally undisputed credibility.  </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">The problem that I see with the overuse of these buzz words is a blatant temptation to be hypocritical.  We have a generation that is calling for authenticity in a world that is beset with opportunity for all-out fakery.  </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">In this 21st century social milieu—in a world increasingly defined by the internet and the possibility of faceless, voiceless communication; authenticity is vanishing.  Social networking sites such as: Facebook, My Space and Twitter and information brokering systems like blogs deliver the temptation to be anything but authentic. Occasions to be fake, fraudulent and a counterfeit are offered in a plethora of ways everywhere online.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">The young country music artist Brad Paisley expertly summed up the reality of blog deception in a song he entitled “Online”.  In the tune he tells the story of a “mama’s boy” turned “poser” online.  </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><em><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">I work down at the Pizza Pit<br />
And I drive an old Hyundai<br />
I still live with my mom and dad<br />
I&#8217;m 5 foot 3 and overweight<br />
I&#8217;m a scifi fanatic<br />
A mild asthmatic<br />
And I&#8217;ve never been to second base<br />
But there&#8217;s whole ‘nother me<br />
That you need to see<br />
Go checkout MySpace</span></span></em></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><em><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">&#8216;Cause online I&#8217;m out in Hollywood<br />
I&#8217;m 6 foot 5 and I look damn good<br />
I drive a Maserati<br />
I&#8217;m a black-belt in karate<br />
And I love a good glass of wine<br />
It turns girls on that I’m mysterious<br />
I tell them I don&#8217;t want nothing serious<br />
&#8216;Cause even on a slow day<br />
I could have a three way<br />
Chat with two women at one time</span></span></em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><em><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">I’m so much cooler online<br />
So much cooler online</span></span></em></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">We may think such unashamed hypocrisy is rare but the news in the blog world reveals the opposite&#8211; in actuality&#8211;blog fraud is rampant.  Online “posing” is on the rise and it is not always as harmless as it seems. Recently, the U.S. chapter of the IT Service Management Forum filed a defamation lawsuit against its former executive director, alleging that he tried to discredit the group via blog comments posted under a fictitious female name.  It is the first such case to get to court but if the man accused loses he will pay “big” money in damages.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">In another example of blog fraud, the online community had been wondering for a long time about the “real” identity of the anonymous blog author of “OffAgain-OnAgain Boy”.  The web-log which featured a graphic exposé of the life of an IT support manager was attracting a hefty readership and many questions.  As a result a newspaper investigation was launched to solve the mystery surrounding the anonymous blogger’s identity and they hit pay dirt.  The paper soon revealed that that the writer did not actually work in the IT industry at all but was in fact a £3,000 per night prostitute.  Online reports revealed that “<em>the stories of late night sessions spent identifying the cause of widespread spreadsheet corruption, and the details of three hour meetings debating the merits of Windows upgrades were pure fantasy.</em>”</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">Recently in an example closer to home, on a blog authored by a Christian skeptic named Daniel Florien another case of blog fraud was exposed.  Florien revealed in a post called “<em>Pastor caught lying for Jesus</em>” that a Christian minister was in fact on his blog fraudulently posing as an atheist.  The lying pastor falsified comments in which he attempted to make a supposed atheist contributor look like a total immoral idiot.  </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">He wrote, “<em>What’s wrong with killing babies? I see no problem with it. I have enough mouths to feed. I don’t get the argument and I am an atheist. Since I don’t believe in God, I don’t believe in anything characterized as good, bad / right, wrong. So, what’s the big deal?”</em></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">At first Florien reported that he was shocked that anyone could say things like that and then he realized that he was dealing with a “fundie” in disguise, a sheep in wolves clothing. He had done some digging and realized that the deceiver was using a variety of names on his blog.  </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Florien states, <em>“In a few hours, he (the poser) went from apologizing for our past dealings with slimy lying Christians, to suggesting it’s okay to abuse women, kill neighbors, and slaughter children under the guise of atheism. So I banned him. I found what he did to be disgusting. It would be like me pretending to me multiple Christians on a Christian blog, asserting there’s nothing wrong with raping women and killing children because God commands it in the Bible.”</em></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">I probably would not agree with Florien on many subjects but on this one we are in accord—I cannot tolerate liars.  It is disgusting when people practice this kind of lack of character and authenticity.  Such posers are guilty of fraud and it is particularly repulsive when this kind of activity comes from a Christian minister.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin:0;"><span style="font-size:small;font-family:Times New Roman;">In my opinion it is one thing to use a moniker or hide behind an avatar but it is another to falsify comments, pose as someone you are not, or dream up blog content. I like blogging and interacting anonymously on line as much as the next person but at times there is obviously a fine line between “blog fun and games” and lying. We must remind ourselves as we are tempted by blog fraud &#8211;the ninth commandment still unequivocally states&#8211;“thou shalt not lie.” </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;">In conclusion, I believe if we in this post modern world are going to preach about the necessity of being “authentic” we better practice “authenticity.”  And for those of us who are Christians if we are true adherents to our faith we should obviously practice what we preach as well.  </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:&quot;">We, who so vehemently stand for advancing the Truth, should (duh) tell the truth. We need to be as aware of lying on line as we would be if we were doing it face to face. As we conduct our online relationships and become citizens of the worldwide internet community let’s strive to raise the moral bar rather than trampling all over it. Let’s hold one another accountable to a standard of truthfulness and spread the word &#8211;“thou shalt not commit blog fraud.” </span></p>
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